Mindset

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This is huge. ( as in very important)

You can have a positive mindset, a negative mindset, be spiritually minded, or poverty minded.  Probably we all have a mixture of several mindsets and we don’t even realize the contradictions.  The secret is to understand your mindset, take full responsibility for it, and decide what kind of mindset are you going to create from now on.  There are no victims when it comes to mindsets.  Once we are old enough to know better, if we still think and act out of a bad mindset, it is our own problem.  No one is powerless. Anyone can change if they want to change, and are willing to make it happen.  God will not change you mind for you.

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Which mindset best fits you?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Romans Chapter 8 is a very important chapter, but perhaps not that easy to understand at first.  _______________

Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life [a]in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death. For what the Law could not do, [b]weak as it was through the flesh, God did: sending His own Son in the likeness of [c]sinful flesh and as an offering for sin, He condemned sin in the flesh, so that the requirement of the Law might be fulfilled in us, who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. For those who are according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.

_____________________________________It all comes down to a mindset.

Romans Chapter 12 goes on to give us the practical steps to create new habits and a new mind set.  ________________________

12 Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, [a]acceptable to God, which is your [b]spiritual service of worship. And do not be conformed to this [c]world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may [d]prove what the will of God is, that which is good and [e]acceptable and perfect.___________________

A renewed mind builds a transformed life, one that is in alignment with God and therefore naturally receives the wisdom and power to do the will of God.  It is by grace that we are changed.  But it is our choice and action that allows the process to happen.

God is interested in every part of our life, not just our church attendance or tithe money.  He wants our heart to be changed to be like His heart.  And in the process, our mind changes to think more like He thinks.  He is never afraid or stressed out.  He is never greedy or bitter, or hoping to get a good deal at someone else’s expense.   He is never depressed, confused, or left feeling rejected ( Though He is often rejected and He feels it, He does not stay there.)

He sees the infinite possibilities ahead everyday.  He loves to laugh.  He loves to play.  He loves to be with His children and explore the possibilities of life and learning and creating together.  He is never bored. He wants us to live like He lives.  He gave us new life for a purpose.  And that purpose has everything to do with becoming like Him and bringing life to others just as He has brought life to us.

mindsetNot only are there negative and positive mindsets, there are also abundance and never enough thinking as well.  This has all been well documented.  So my purpose is not to give information but to get to the solution.  So I will review this quickly.

 

 

Here are Ten common differences between a wealth mindset and a poverty mindset, borrowed from http://www.inman.com/2015/04/14/mindset-matters-are-you-thinking-rich-or-thinking-poor/

10 keys to a rich mindset:

1. Weathy people watch with whom they spend their time. They spend their time with battery chargers, not battery drainers. With lilies, not with leeches. Poor people have poor people for friends. Rich people hang out with people who are like them or more successful, who are intellectually stimulating and have a give-and-take balance to the relationship.

2. Wealthy people pay themselves first and lead with revenue. They do not just “save whatever’s left over.” They have and use an actual business plan.

3. Wealthy people control what goes into their body and their mind.

4. Wealthy people are not just goal-setters; they’re goal achievers. They believe that what they can conceive and believe, they will achieve. Failure is not an option.

5. Wealthy people have and display low ego. They know that it is only through helping others at the highest level that their wealth and success grows.

6. Wealthy people are optimistic most of the time. Poor people are negative most of the time.

7. Wealthy people rarely complain. They avoid those who do. Poor people complain most of the time.

8. Wealthy people are virtually excuse-free. Poor people always blame others, the situation, the economy or politics.

9. Wealthy people respect money as a tool. Poor people don’t understand the function of money.

10. Wealthy people know what “causes” their income. They study their business relentlessly, polishing and modifying along the way. They are meticulous and relentless implementers.

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There are many of these lists available and I find it helpful to review them from time to time to see where my mind is tracking.  It is very easy to slide into a poverty – fear mentality, especially if you were born into a struggling family where that was a serious issue.

 

The point is: mindset matters.  It will push you forward toward health, wealth and happiness or it will drag you down to discouragement, failure and poverty.  It has taken me years to believe this.  I have searched and tested this topic from the perspective of business, science and physics, spiritual /religious and the practical – how do I survive and learn to overcome to see what is hype and what is truth.  There are so many rabbit trails.  So many people teach the “get rich quick” or “once saved always saved” messages that leave us all feeling discouraged.  Building a healthy mindset, works together with building a healthy physical body and a healthy lifestyle where you connect to people with respectful, loving relationships.  There are NO shortcuts. The reason it can be so challenging is everything IS connected.  Changing your mind, without working on physical health and relational health will not work more than a week or two.

That is why my discovery has been so exciting for me.  Each piece of the puzzle we have learned moves us in the right direction.  My investments in physical health, learning and study, hard work to keep the bills paid, and at home, facing the challenges of loving each other even when it was tough was not wasted.

To quote the Bible, “but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life. Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary.”  Sure there are all those seeds we have sown to the selfish side of life and they too grow.  But ultimately we will win if we do not give up to discouragement.  

Next step:  let’s get down to the practical issues of changing habits, so we change our lifestyle to contain our new mindset and value system to be continually building physical, emotional, spiritual wealth daily.  And I have some really exciting news coming up.  There actually is a thing that happens, call it a law of nature or the grace of God, but we do attract the very thing we think about and fear or admire.  So as we stop focusing on the ugly side of life, we stop attracting it to ourselves.  And it will be replaced with the good we are learning to think about and some good things actually coming looking for us.  I just could not believe this was true.  So I tested it both ways, think ugly – ugly found me with a bunch of ugly friends.  I did not enjoy that.  I starter thinking joyful, thankful, hopeful, positive and to my surprise good really came and found be.

Not everything has been good.  That is also a topic for another lesson.  Good must be tested to grow stronger.  Just as an athlete goes to the weight room knowing it will be painful, all the time believing in the increased strength he or she will have in a few weeks.  Let’s do this.  Examine our mindset.

Take responsibility for it. Face it to change.

Learn to form better habits around better thinking patterns.

See our determination get tested and strengthen.

And then watch for payday.  It is coming.  God is not mocked, what a men sows he shall reap.  We let the weeds start to die and the prosperity of life begin to grow, Grow, GROW.

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Words of Faith and Unshakable – Unbreakable Bible verses.

Faith verses

 

Mat 9.29   Blind man – Do you believe that I am able to do this? Yes,

According to your faith it will be done.

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Rice planting as a community

そこで、イエスは彼らの目にさわって言われた、「あなたがたの信仰どおり、あなたの身になるように」

 

Mat 17.20 Boy – Because you have so little faith. I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, “move from here to there and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”

20 するとイエスは言われた、「あなたがたの信仰が足りないからである。よく言い聞かせておくが、もし、からし種一粒ほどの信仰があるなら、この山にむかって『ここからあそこに移れ』と言えば、移るであろう。このように、あなたがたにできない事は、何もないであろ donna koto demo anata ni dekinai koto wa arimasen.
21 〔しかし、このたぐいは、祈と断食とによらなければ、追い出すことはできない〕」。

 

Mat 18. 3 ..unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the Kingdom of God.

「よく聞きなさい。心をいれかえて幼な子のようにならなければ、天国にはいることはできないであろう。
4 この幼な子のように自分を低くする者が、天国でいちばん偉いのである。

 

Mat 18:18 what ever you bind on earth will have been bound in heaven…if two of you agree about anything you ask, it will be done for you by my father in heaven.

18 よく言っておく。あなたがたが地上でつなぐことは、天でも皆つながれ、あなたがたが地上で解くことは、天でもみな解かれるであろう。
19 また、よく言っておく。もしあなたがたのちのふたりが、どんな願い事についても地上で心を合わせるなら、天にいますわたしの父はそれをかなえて下さるであろ
20 ふたりまたは三人が、わたしの名によって集まっている所には、わたしもその中にいるのである」。

 

Mat 19: 26 Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

26 イエスは彼らを見つめて言われた、「人にはそれはできないが、神にはなんでもできない事はない」。

 

Mat 21.21 …if you have faith and do not doubt, not only can you do what was done to this fig tree .. If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.

21 イエスは答えて言われた、「よく聞いておくがよい。もしあなたがたが信じて疑わないならば、このいちじくにあったようなことが、できるばかりでなく、この山にむかって、動き出して海の中にはいれと言っても、そのとおりになるであろう。22 また、祈のとき、信じて求めるものは、みな与えられるであろ」。

shinkou o mochi, utagau koto ga nakerebe..

shinjite inori motomeru mono nara, nan demo ataeraremasu.

 

 

Mat 22.37 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your minds.

37 イエスは言われた、「『心をつくし、精神をつくし、思いをつくして、主なるあなたの神を愛せよ』。
38 これがいちばん大切な、第一のいましめである。
39 第二もこれと同様である、『自分を愛するようにあなたの隣り人を愛せよ』。

Gal 5:6 but faith working through love.   愛によって働く信仰だけである。

 

Mk 9.23 boy- Everything is possible for him who believes.  

23 イエスは彼に言われた、「もしできれば、と言うのか。信ずる者には、どんな事でもできる」。

 

 

Mk 11.22-25 Have faith in God ( fig) ..does not doubt in his heart but believes that what he says will happen, it will be done for him. Therefore, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.   ( forgive)

22 イエスは答えて言われた、「神を信じなさい。
23 よく聞いておくがよい。だれでもこの山に、動き出して、海の中にはいれと言い、その言ったことは必ず成ると、心に疑わないで信じるなら、そのとおりに成るであろ
24 そこで、あなたがたに言が、なんでも祈り求めることは、すでにかなえられたと信じなさい。そすれば、そのとおりになるであろ
25 また立って祈るとき、だれかに対して、何か恨み事があるならば、ゆるしてやりなさい。そうすれば、天にいますあなたがたの父も、あなたがたのあやまちを、ゆるしてくださるであろう。

 

Rom4:4 Now to the one who works, his wage is not credited as a favor, but as what is due.

4 いったい、働く人に対する報酬は、恩恵としてではなく、当然の支払いとして認められる。 5 しかし、働きはなくても、不信心な者を義とするかたを信じる人は、その信仰が義と認められるのである。

 

Rom 4:17 ..the God who gives life to the dead and calls things that are not as though they are.

16 このようなわけで、すべては信仰によるのである。それは恵みによるのであって、すべての子孫に、すなわち、律法に立つ者だけにではなく、アブラハムの信仰に従う者にも、この約束が保証されるのである。アブラハムは、神の前で、わたしたちすべての者の父であって、
17 「わたしは、あなたを立てて多くの国民の父とした」と書いてあるとおりである。彼はこの神、すなわち、死人を生かし、無から有を呼び出される神を信じたのである。
18 彼は望み得ないのに、なおも望みつつ信じた。そのために、「あなたの子孫はこうなるであろう」と言われているとおり、多くの国民の父となったのである。

 

Rom 10.8-11 The word is near you, in your mouth and in your heart. If you confess with your mouth, Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be (saved) For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified., and it is with your mouth that you confess and are (saved)

8 では、なんと言っているか。「言葉はあなたの近くにある。あなたの口にあり、心にある」。この言葉とは、わたしたちが宣べ伝えている信仰の言葉である。
9 すなわち、自分の口で、イエスは主であると告白し、自分の心で、神が死人の中からイエスをよみがえらせたと信じるなら、あなたは救われる。
10 なぜなら、人は心に信じて義とされ、口で告白して救われるからである。 11 聖書は、「すべて彼を信じる者は、失望に終ることがない」と言っている。

 

Rom 10.17 faith comes by hearing the message and the message is heard by the (rhema) word of Christ.

信仰は聞くことによるのであり、聞くことはキリストの言葉から来るのである

 

Rom 12.1-3 offer your bodies as living sacrifices.   Do not conform to the pattern of this world, be transform by the renewing of your mind.

1 兄弟たちよ。そういうわけで、神のあわれみによってあなたがたに勧める。あなたがたのからだを、神に喜ばれる、生きた、聖なる供え物としてささげなさい。それが、あなたがたのなすべき霊的な礼拝である。
2 あなたがたは、この世と妥協してはならない。むしろ、心を新たにすることによって、造りかえられ、何が神の御旨であるか、何が善であって、神に喜ばれ、かつ全きことであるかを、わきまえ知るべきである。

 

Heb 11.1-2   Now Faith is : being sure, confident (the assurance, substance, the tangible reality, or sure foundation) of things we hope for, knowing that something is real ( will come to be) even if we don’t see it ( the conviction/ assurance/ evidence about things not seen).

1 さて、信仰とは、望んでいる事がらを確信し、まだ見ていない事実を確認することである。
2 昔の人たちは、この信仰のゆえに賞賛された。
3 信仰によって、わたしたちは、この世界が神の言葉で造られたのであり、したがって、見えるものは現れているものから出てきたのでないことを、悟るのである。

A temple for dolls

I was working in Kyoto and went for a walk on my break-time.  Around the corner I found a temple for unwanted dolls.  I had to think about that one.  But I have seen at other temples a place to leave the white sticks used by a blind person and the tools used by a person practicing tea ceremony.  I believe the concept is the same.  Certain items used in daily life that we depend on, or that become special to us, are not things we want to later throw away casually.  In old Japan some people saved their nail clippings, for example, because it was considered to be part of themselves and not to be thrown away.  It the same way, I can imagine a doll becoming very special to someone over time and to throw it in the trash might feel as if it was being murdered in a cruel and terrible way.  How much nicer it would be to send it to the temple to live forever.  I think this is an Asian concept.

Leadership

Leadership in old Japan
Leadership in old Japan

Leadership is similar to the beams and pillar posts in a house. They are set on the foundation of Christ and must be able to carry weight, as the walls and ceilings are added and supported. To build good leadership can take a life time, even several generations.   There is no shortcut.

 

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